
Dennis was a sophomore at The College of Saint Rose where he hoped to land the starting position of catcher on the Division 1 baseball team. Things were looking positive for him when he got the bad news that the NCAA had declared him ineligible due to complications in his status as a transfer student from the University of Buffalo, where he had been studying electrical engineering. Undaunted, he turned his energy toward starting a band that became known as Stilgrass.
One day Dennis came up to me and, in a matter of fact way, announced that he had gotten a gig. Since I didn’t have a clue what he was talking about, it eventually became evident that he had been able to land a coveted slot to play at Saratoga Winners just south of the Crescent Bridge on Route 9. I offered him the opinion that it would prove difficult to meet the commitment since he didn’t have a band. “Right”, he responded. “I’ve got to get working on that”. And he disappeared for two weeks.
The night of his performance, Joanne and I dutifully trudged into Saratoga Winners with the expectation of supporting our nearly adult son in the same manner in which we attended his sixth-grade recital, where he had played the cello. Like all parents of our generation, we lugged a large, shoulder-mounted camcorder to record the event. I’m glad we did. The band was really phenomenal! Stilgrass had picked up a singer/songwriter name Nate from St. Rose who teamed up with Dennis to write a song called “Trials”. I was blown away by it and it has been one of my favorites from the first time heard it. Check it out for yourself.
Dennis was never intimidated by any challenge that he faced. Even though he made it look easy, he worked his rear end off to overcome any obstacle that impeded his progress.